I grew up in Wolcott, CT, where my parents spent their entire married
life. They had moved into the house that they had purchased in 1946 and both
died in that same house in 2006 and 2012 respectively. With five children –
born in 1948, 1949, 1954, 1956, and 1958 – there was never a lot of money for
somewhat frivolous things like vacations in the earlier years. And with 23
acres of woods and a pond behind the house, we already lived in a place that
others would have liked to vacation. It was not until I was older that we began
having a regular summer vacation and went camping – first with a tent, then a
pop-up camper. Our vacation for many years was to Cape Cod, but that was a “working
vacation” (more on that in a later blog).
In the early summer of 1956, we took a short vacation to New York City.
My brother Chuck was only a year-and-a-half old, and my mother would have been
5 months pregnant with my sister Dawn. So Chuck was left, probably with my
grandmother, for a few days while my parents, I and my sister Beth, took a
short vacation to New York City. This was in the days before the interstate highways
had been built, so we traveled down Route 8 from Waterbury to Bridgeport, then took
the Merritt Parkway along the coast to New York. It’s a two-hour drive these
days, but back then would have been three hours or more depending on traffic.
This was not a long vacation, as we only stayed over two nights. So
that would have given us the afternoon of the first day (probably a Friday),
all day Saturday, and a partial day on Sunday before we returned. Since we
wanted to put several activities into a relatively short amount of time, my
father had arranged a hotel stay right in the heart of things – Times Square.
From there we could walk to anywhere else we wanted. I don’t remember all the
places we visited – after all, since we were “country folk”, just being in the “Big
Apple” was exciting enough, but I still have a few vivid memories of that weekend.
The first was the hotel that we stayed at. I don’t remember the name of
it, and it has long since been torn down and a larger, taller building is now
there, but I know where it was. As you looked out the window, we were on the
back side of a New York City landmark of the day – the neon Little Lulu sign.
You can see it here in this old picture of Times Square (http://michelesworld.net/dmm/lulu/pc2.jpg).
The picture is of Broadway between 43rd and 44th streets
looking north. We were in one of the rooms just behind the red neon lights in Lulu’s
dress. I remember that after we went to bed that the neon lights were still
visible even with the shades drawn in the room. It wasn’t easy to sleep with
the flashing lights, especially that first night when everything was so exciting.
The second memory was from the following afternoon. We walked over to
the docks on the Hudson River, about five blocks west of the hotel. We hadn’t
planned on anything but looking at the dock area, but discovered that the Queen
Elizabeth was docked there that day. These were the days before transatlantic
jet travel, so the premier way of crossing the Atlantic was on the sister ships
the Queen Mary and the Queen Elizabeth – both owned then by the Cunard Line
(see https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cunard_Line).
The ship had docked the previous day and would be leaving the next day,
so this day it was being cleaned and prepared for its next voyage. We were not
passengers and the ship was not open to the public, so we just walked along the
dock, looking up at this massive ship which took the entire length of the dock
(the ship is over 1000’ long)! As the four of us stood there looking, we
noticed an older gentleman, very dapper in a three-piece suit and hat, on the
dock. He approached and in a voice with a distinct British accent asked if we were
planning on touring the ship. My father responded that we were not passengers
so we couldn’t, but the man said, “I’m one of the owners, I’ll arrange a tour.”
It appeared that he was someone of high rank in the Cunard Line, as he was true
to his word. Our lone picture of that day, taken by my father on his black-and-white
camera, is of my mother, my sister and I, the older gentleman and another man –
standing at the railing of the ship with one of the iconic Queen Elizabeth life
preservers between us.
At any rate, we had one of the crew assigned to give our family a
personally guided tour of the ship for the next couple of hours. We toured the
outside, walked through one of the dining halls, down the interior corridors,
peering into the engine room, etc. One thing I particularly remember was seeing
a swimming pool somewhere in the interior of the ship (this was before cruises
were to the Caribbean and the ship was retrofitted with an outdoor pool in the
1960s). Our chance encounter that afternoon turned into something quite
memorable.
My next memory is of the Empire State Building. Not only did we go up
to the 86th floor observation deck, but also to the 102nd
floor observatory. While it’s not outside like the 86th floor, the
chance to be in that small area with a 360-degree view is quite something. Not
only could we see New York and New Jersey just across the river, but looking
back to the northeast you could see some of the hills of Connecticut where we
had come from. We also took the ferry to the Statue of Liberty and walked up to
the crown where you could look out. That is also historic, but to my 8-year-old
eyes, being up over 100 stories was much more exciting.
I’ve never been a city person and I avoid places like New York City if
I can – preferring the rolling hills of Connecticut and Pennsylvania where I’ve
lived for the past 40+ years. I’m still only a few hours from NYC, but I’d much
rather stay away. However, that short trip back in 1956 was quite memorable and
60 years later is still that way.