Thursday, December 28, 2023

The Pierpont Family Name

I recently ran across the below article from a newspaper in 1921 (2 years before the founding of the Pierpont Family Association).

[Newspaper article]

 


This is evidently from a series of newspaper articles that traced family names. Let’s look at it closely, as there are a number of errors which we now know based on more recent historical research.

1)     “…the name is said to have been derived in England from Normandy.”

I’m not sure why the author makes this statement. What does derived in England mean? Is she referring to the fact that in Normandy it was “de Pierrepont” and in England they dropped the “de” part?

2)     “The founder was Robert de Pierrepont, a Norman knight…”

While Robert was the first of the family to come to England (with William the Conqueror), he was not the “founder” of the family. We now know that there were at least a couple of generations before him in Normandy.

3)     “Others say that the Pierreponts were not Norman at all, but that they came from Picardy at the time of the Conquest, having taken the name from a castle in Picardy.”

I’ve discussed the topic of the origin of the family name at length before (https://ramblinrussells.blogspot.com/2022/01/origin-of-pierrepont-family.html), so I’ll not repeat it here. Please read this research if you are interested.

4)     “…the younger son of William Pierrepont, a younger brother of Sir Robert Pierrepont who was baron Pierrepont and Viscount Newark…”

I’ve also discussed this topic and charted it out before (https://ramblinrussells.blogspot.com/2019/06/lost-dukedom-of-new-england-pierponts.html). William was not a younger brother of Sir Robert, rather he was a younger brother of Sir Henry, and an uncle of Sir Robert. This also means that the statement in the following sentence about John Pierrepont of Roxbury being a second cousin to Evelyn (duke) is inaccurate as he would be the second cousin, once removed.

5)     “The early members of the family in the new world usually spelled the name Pierepont, but almost all have gone back to the older English speeling, Pierrepont.”

There are three errors in the sentence. The first two are inaccuracies in the printing process as it’s obvious that “Pierepont” should be “Pierpont” and “speeling” should be “spelling.” The person who did the typesetting had a problem with using the “e” key. The third problem requires a bit more explanation.

The statement about “almost all” now using the English spelling of “Pierrepont” is based on where the author of the article lived. She had been born on Long Island in 1887 and, at the time of this writing, was living in northern New Jersey. As a result, the branch of the family she would have been most acquainted with would have been the descendants of Hezekiah Beers Pierrepont (1768-1838). (See https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hezekiah_Pierrepont). Hezekiah was the great-grandson of the Rev James Pierpont of New Haven. He had been born in New Haven, but in 1790 moved to New York City and a decade later moved to Brooklyn, NY. It was there that he not only became quite rich by marrying into a family that owned considerable land (500,000 acres) in NY, but changed his name back to the English spelling – perhaps as a way of sounding most closely related to his distant titled cousins back in England. As the most prominent member of the greater Pierpont family at the time, that apparently was the basis for the author making this statement.

 

This has been a great exercise in pulling together my past research and being able to set the record straight on a newspaper article from over 100 years ago!

Sunday, December 24, 2023

Christmas in Pakistan

As I write this it is the day before Christmas. Here in the US we’ve been seeing houses decorated with colored lights, special church services, people getting together with family and friends, and presents being wrapped then unwrapped. Even for those who are not Christians, it’s a time of celebration.

But what does it mean to be a Christian and celebrate Christmas in other places in the world? How about some place like Pakistan where Christians are in the minority?

 

August 19, 2023

It didn’t make the headlines here in the US, but back in August there were riots in the city of Jaranwala, a small city of 120,000 in NE Pakistan. This city is located about 20 miles from Faisalabad (3.2 million people) and 70 miles from Lahore (11.2 million people). [For local readers of my blog, think of Jaranwala being Allentown, Faisalabad being Philadelphia, and Lahore being New York City.] During the course of these riots some 20 churches and nearly 80 homes (of Christian families) were burned by the mobs.

The cause of the riots, which seemed to happen somewhat spontaneously, were ostensibly as a result of a report of a Christian man desecrating a few pages of the Quran. A report in Aljazeera just a few days later gives some of the particulars.

https://www.aljazeera.com/news/2023/8/23/pakistan-christians-in-fear-after-blasphemy-allegations-trigger-violence

Two weeks after this report, there was an article in the Diplomat which explored the incident as apparently stemming from a personal dispute between two individuals.

https://thediplomat.com/2023/09/jaranwala-church-attacks-another-example-of-the-misuse-of-blasphemy-laws-in-pakistan/

As a follow-up, BBC published an article just yesterday with the title “Months after attacks, Pakistan’s Christians still feel unsafe.”

https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-67781469

I’ve been following this story closely because I have a friend who lives in the Christian community in Lahore. Here are some pictures that she sent me back in August when these riots had just occurred.

[Fires] [Burned building] [Burned wall]

 








So, what should our response be in cases like this? Before I answer this, let me introduce you to my friend, Samreen.

 

Samreen

I became acquainted with Samreen somewhat by accident back in May 2023. I had identified a scammer who was trying to become friends with me and as I checked out their account in Facebook, I noticed that they had also sent a friend request to someone else - Samreen. I sent a message to Samreen letting her know that her new “friend” was a scam and suggesting that she block that person.

She thanked me for watching out for her, then asked if she could friend me instead. After checking her out, I quickly determined that she was a real person and agreed to accept her friend request. This began our friendship.

Samreen was orphaned when she was quite young. She has no memories of her parents or grandparents, and she had no siblings. But she was fortunate enough to have been raised in a Christian orphanage in Lahore, Pakistan. When she was a young teen, she began helping to teach the younger students in the orphanage. This led to her founding her own ministry to widows and orphans in the Christian colony in Lahore, a ministry that has continued to this day (she’s now in her mid-30s).

Her ministry is called “Faith Fellowship Ministries” (FFM). Here is a link to their website.

https://faithfellowshipminis.wixsite.com/mysite-3

While there are pictures on the website, here are few that give some good insight into this ministry:

[Children] {Rice] [Church]

 









When the riot of August 19 happened, it of course was upsetting to her and all the other Pakistani Christian. There were some radical individuals in Lahore who also joined in the actions against the Christians there. While not as bad as those in Jaranwala, all the Christians in the province were fearful for their lives.

 

What Can You Do?

While it’s difficult to appreciate the atmosphere in places like Pakistan where the Christian population is a small minority surrounded by individuals who may be hostile to Christianity, there are three things I can think of that we can do.

1 – Educate yourself on what’s going on in the world. Don’t just follow news sources from US media. Periodically look at outlets like BBC, Aljazeera, and other international sources. Here is a quote from one of the above references that might give you a perspective.

“Our colony was a model of peace and unity. But this one incident has sent us back centuries. I don’t feel any safety or security here any more.”

 

2 – Realize that there are people around the world who need our prayers. Samreen told me recently:

“Please pray for me. I will be praying for you too, Alan.”

I have put together a list on my phone that has various people/families around the world divided up into regions. So each week I “pray around the world.”

 

3 – Realize that we sometimes need to move from just prayers to actions. Here are few more quotes from Samreen:

“We have people who don’t even have their own Bibles”

“Here people just say we are praying but we need action than words too”

While there are some overseas ministries that have a US affiliate who collects money for them (and gives them tax credit), there are many others like FFM that have no such connections. When the incident in Jaranwala happened, they set up a GoFundMe to try and collect money for the affected families. Having a personal contact with Samreen, I made a small donation. Checking a month later, I was upset to see that I was the only person who made such a donation. That’s sad!

Wednesday, December 13, 2023

Christmas 2023

As one gets older the time seems to fly by even quicker. It seems like 2023 just started a short time ago and here it is, time to write our annual Christmas letter already. I’m using last year’s letter as a reminder of all the topics I covered then – but also as a way to remind myself what things have happened in 2023 and what things from 2022 might make their way into my mind.

 

Family

Our grandchildren seem to be growing up so quickly! This fall our oldest, Aryon, went off to college – following in his parent’s footsteps, he’s a freshman at Taylor University in Indiana. Majoring in Computer Science – like his dad and myself. This summer he got a job working at Pinebrook Bible Conference in the Poconos – the place where our family gets together for a week each year.

Each of our four grandsons from PA got to spend a month in FL with their cousins this year. Caleb went from mid-April to mid-May (so that he’d be back home before final exams). Isaiah went from mid-June to mid-July (coming back when Chris and family came up for our week at Pinebrook). Ethan then went back with them and in late August we did a swap so Asher was there until mid-September (doing his first three weeks of school from there). See below for our annual picture of all 7 grands together – Tiernan is now 6’!

Tiernan is in his junior year and Ilyanna in 8th grade and continue to be homeschooled. Our four PA grands continue with Liberty University Online Academy. Ethan (8th grade) works with Kim. His social studies class this year is Geography and he’s in pre-algebra. I have the other three boys each day (school hours are 9-11:30 and 2-3:30/4). Isaiah and Caleb are in 6th (middle school!!) and Asher in 4th. Donna was going to be doing Bible and Literacy with Asher, but she has a lot on her plate taking care of her plants (both inside and outside) and other activities so I’ve ended up overseeing all of Asher’s subjects. See below for what my den looks like every day!

This fall we were blessed to have two visits from family members. My brother Edd and his wife Ingrid came back to the US from their position as missionaries to Thailand. They were with us for a day as they visited their supporters on the East Coast before officially retiring the end of January. Then a few weeks later our nephew, Matt VanDeCar and his wife and children stopped by for a day as they had come to PA for a wedding. We had not seen them since we went to MI for their wedding several years ago. It’s nice that we can continue to be in close contact with all of my and Donna’s siblings and many of their children even though we are scattered all around the US.

 

Medical/Health

As I noted last year, I had begun the screening process for a drug-based Alzheimer’s study but was awaiting the administration of a brain PET scan at the beginning of 2023. The results of that PET scan showed that I had no amyloid in my brain, so I did not have any incipient Alzheimer’s and was unlikely to. So I did not qualify for that study, however I continue my involvement in a number of other studies.

Donna and I are now in our mid-70s but in relatively good health. The only exception is the continuing problem I’m having with the wound on the bottom of my right foot. After an operation last year and a long healing process, I thought that I could finally put that behind me. Then this fall, for an unknown reason, the wound opened up again. So I’m once again having to rebandage it every few days, staying off my feet as much as possible, and going through the healing process. This is now going on six years (!!!) and it’s a bit frustrating. But if that’s the only physical/mental issue I have to deal with, then I suppose I should be grateful as many others my age have a lot more issues.

 

Genealogy

This past summer was the 100th annual meeting of the Pierpont Family Association. We met at Mill Plain Church in Waterbury, the site of our first meetings back in the 1920s. As the co-historian of the group, I made a couple of presentations. Then this fall the other co-historian, my 3rd cousin Bob Kraft, passed away at the age of 89. Since he also lived in PA, I was blessed to be able to attend his memorial service and spend some time talking to his wife and some of his children. I’ll miss working with him and we’re still working out the details of how to continue all the work that he had been responsible for.

I’ve also continued my research into all the members of our church here in PA – where I’m in distant cousin relationship with about 2/3 of everyone there. It’s something that I enjoy doing and the results are appreciated.

 

Writing

Following on the heels of my 3-part book series of the adventures of Fred Forchelli last year, I wrote two more detective stories in early 2023. Both of them were written by the fictional friend of Fred – Betty Rubble. They are also available on Amazon in both paperback and Kindle versions (see below).

Otherwise, I also continue posting in my blog. I added 35+ entries this year and am approaching 650 entries since I began my blog nearly 9 years ago.  It’s also approaching nearly 2000 pages (at 8.5x11 size) – a lot of writing over that period of time.

 

Miscellaneous

This spring our local power company began the process of replacing the power transmission poles behind our house (they were about 50 years old). Doing so required the building of a thick wooden plank road across our property. So, except for a couple of times in the spring, we’ve been unable to mow the back yard and we periodically get large trucks or front end loaders driving down that “road”. The lines are finally complete and we hope to have the “road” removed in the next week or so (the planks a few properties away were removed two weeks ago), but we have no idea what the ground will look like afterwards. But it’s definitely affected any property plans we had for this year. And I haven’t been able to help anyway due to my foot problems. Next year?

 

Concluding Thoughts

I get a little jealous when I see family and friends around our age who are “retired”, taking extended vacations or cruises, etc. Homeschooling our grandchildren means those types of activities are not available to us. And I get tired enough each day that I appreciate being able to take a nap after lunch before beginning our afternoon session. But the opportunity to have that kind of relationship with our grandchildren is not something I really want to trade. I talk to some of our senior friends at church who look after their grandchildren perhaps one afternoon a week and the typical response is, “I could never do what you’re doing!” But we do it and in some ways it keeps us young. So while traveling or cruises are not in our immediate future (it will be 7 years before the youngest is off to college), we have a good life.

 

Wishing all our family and friends a very merry Christmas,

Alan and Donna

 

[Grandchildren]

 


[Homeschooling]

 


[Book]

 


[Power poles]

 



[Reason Season]