Saturday, May 18, 2024

Who are the Pierponts?

There are two Pierpont/Pierpoint family reunions taking place this summer. The Pierpont Family Association (PFA), who are mostly the descendants of two brothers who came to the Massachusetts Bay Colony in about 1640, are having their 101st consecutive reunion at Hammonasett State Park in Connecticut in June. And the Pierpont/Pierpoint family, who are mostly the descendants of Henry Pierpoint who came to Maryland in 1650 are meeting in western Tennessee in September. But there are also family members elsewhere in the US, in Canada, in the UK, and in France.

But who are all these groups of people? Are they all related to each other? And if so, how?

I’ve done a lot of research on behalf of the greater Pierpont family over the years, and I’d like to first pull it together, then list all these various groups and tie them together as best I can.

 

Beginnings in Normandy

No one disputes that the family had their origins in Normandy, France, in the 900s. While it is not known for certain who was the first person to bear that name, the earliest which has been documented is Sir Hugh de Pierrepont who was born around 980. The name de Pierrepont, meaning of/from the stone bridge, has been the subject of considerable research over the years.

My own contribution to this research can be found here, where I explored the various sites around France and identified the most likely location for where Hugh lived. I’ll not repeat that research here, except to note that the de Pierrepont name can still be found in France now – over 1000 years later!   

 

Invasion of England

Sir Robert de Pierrepont, a grandson of Sir Hugh, was one of the leaders under William the Conqueror during the Norman invasion of England in 1066. Once the Normans had taken over southern England, Robert was rewarded with land in what came to be called Hurst Pierrepont in Lewes, Sussex, on the south coast of England. However, within a few generations, the family had relocated to Halliwell in Lancashire. And just two generations later, the family seat moved to the town of Holme, Nottinghamshire, which would eventually be renamed as Holme Pierrepont. This would remain the family home for the next several hundred years.

The below picture of an official genealogy of the Pierrepont family, which was drawn in 1764, shows the early generations of the family, including their place of residence.

[Beginning in England]

 


Moving to the Americas

There were a number of family members who made the trip to the Americas, with documented immigrations beginning in the 1600s, and continuing until the 1900s. I’ll give more details on these below as I explore the various branches of the family tree.

 

The Problem of Changing Names

The spelling of the Pierpont family name has gone through many changes over the last 1000 years. It’s tempting to simplify these changes by attributing the original name of “de Pierrepont” to those in France, to drop the “de” and give a name of “Pierrepont” to the generations in England, and to anglicize the name to a simple “Pierpont” or “Pierpoint” in the US. But things are not that simple!

While the family members still in France continue to use “de Pierrepont”, the “de” was not dropped immediately upon the Norman invasion in 1066. The above picture of the top portion of an English genealogy shows that the early generations continued to use the “de Pierrepont” surname. It was not until the 1300s that the “de” was dropped.

[Dropping the de]

 


While the “Pierrepont” spelling dominated in England after the 1300s, it was only consistent within the “peers” of the family. Thus, in the blogs I’ve written on this topic (see here and here), I’ve not had to deal with other variations. But outside of this main line, family members were merchants and other professions and were often not even literate.

The consonants in the name (P_rp_nt) stayed pretty consistent. But the first syllable was sometimes rendered “Pier”, “Peir”, “Par”, “Per” as well as the original “Pierre”. And the last syllable might be “Pont”, “Point”, “Poynt” or “Pointe”. Thus, variants such as Pierpont, Pierpoint, Peirpont, Parpoynt, Perpoynt, Perpointe, and others were often recorded. The name was pronounced per local dialects, but written down according to the hearing of the listener. Among the peerage, since the name was also associated with the estate (Hurst Pierrepont or later “Holme Pierrepont), the name remained consistent, but the farther one lived from these estates, the more variation crept in over the centuries. I’ve documented a number of these variants here just among the early New England settlers of the family. Even as late as 1848, my great*3 grandfather, Austin Pierpont, had his name chiseled on his tombstone as “Pierpoint” (see https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/53032273/austin-pierpoint).  

 

The Problem of English Hereditary Rules

In England, not only were titles subject to rules of inheritance such as being only able to be passed to males or only to legitimate children, but property was also subject to those same types of rules. There was benefit to this as it kept estates intact. But if you were a second son, your only chance of inheritance would be if your older brother died without a male heir, and if you were a third or greater son, you would have to leave the family home and make your living through something other than the taxes that were paid by the individuals working on the family lands.

This also meant that the family name would not be recorded or preserved over the following centuries, but would be even more likely to be distorted as in the above discussion. As you’ll see in the below, most of those who came to North America no longer carried the Pierrepont name.

 

Many Groups – All with a Common Heritage

Over the past decade or so, during which I have used my interest in genealogy and during which I’ve been privileged to be a co-historian of the Pierpont Family Association, I’ve been able to make connections to several distinct groups of Pierpont/Pierpoint/Pierrepont/de Pierrepont family members. The power of computers in investigating ancestral records and the power of social media (principally Facebook) in establishing connections has enabled research far more easily than in past generations. Here are the groups which I’ve investigated – groups which are not necessarily proved to be connected, but which connection is still quite certain.

 

Group 1 – the French de Pierreponts

As I mentioned above, while Robert de Pierrepont went to England in 1066 with William the Conqueror, he left behind his uncles and any male siblings or cousins. The de Pierrepont family name has continued on to this day. Two current members of this French branch of the family have joined the Pierpont Family Association and, with the help of Google Translate, I have had conversations with them in French.

 

Group 2 – the English Pierreponts

There have been family members in England for over 950 years. While the line of those in the peerage has “daughtered out”, there are others still living there. Like our French relatives, there are a couple of individuals who still carry the Pierrepont family name and who have joined the PFA.

 

Group 3 – the New England Pierponts

Most of my research into the Pierpont family has been on behalf of the Pierpont Family Association (PFA) of New England. While this branch of the family has been in New England since around 1640, many of the lines from the two brothers, John and Robert, daughtered out fairly early on, so all the members in this family line are descendants of the Rev. James Pierpont who got his education at Harvard and who became the pastor of the Congregational Church in New Haven, CT (see this daughtering out here). While most of these family members carry the Pierpont surname, in the early years there were many other variations. One of the Rev James grandsons changed his name back to Pierrepont, so that surname has also been passed along through that sub-branch.

This is the only branch where we have established a definite connection back to the main English line. The father of John and Robert, James, had also come to New England later in his life. But James’ father was William Pierrepont. He was unfortunately the third son of his father and so had to leave the family home (Holme Pierrepont) in Nottinghamshire and make his living in a small town nearby. In the process, he encountered many of the Puritans in that area – likely the primary reason that his grandsons, and later his son, made the trek to New England to join their Puritan friends in the Massachusetts Bay Colony. You can see William listed in the genealogical tree of the Pierrepont peers from the drawing in 1764. He is listed simply as “third son” and his marriage and any offspring are not even shown.

[William]

 


Group 4 – the Maryland/Virginia Pierpoints

The second largest group of Pierpont/Pierpoints in the US are the descendants of Henry Pierpoint who came to America in the mid-1600s. I’ve done some fairly detailed analysis of this branch of the family in an effort to see if/how they were connected to the New England branch of the family (see here), but like other researchers have not been successful. There are enough matches of names and similarities of places that it’s pretty certain that these two branches connect back in England, but to-date a connection has not been documented. On social media, the NE and MD/VA Facebook groups have a number of joint members and we will stay connected in years to come. A member of the MD/VA branch attended the PFA meeting in 1960 and just a few years ago one of the PFA members attended a reunion of the MD/VA branch. A link to this blog will be sent to the members of both branches for everyone’s reading pleasure.

 

Group 5 – the Maine Pierponts

The Maine branch of the family are the descendants of Richard Pierpont/Pierpoint. He was born in Liverpool, England in 1790, came to Norfolk, VA in 1811, and just a few years later moved to Washington, ME. His naturalization record (from 1857) has his surname as Pierpont, but he signed with an “X” as he was illiterate. His grave lists his surname as Pierpoint. Other records of the time for him and his children have his name listed variously as Pierpont or Pierpoint. Three of his great*3 granddaughters have joined the PFA. While the PFA is happy to have them be part of the ”New England Pierpont” association (PFA), the nearly 200 years between the immigration of Richard and John and Robert has made it difficult to document a genealogical connection.

 

Group 6 – the Utah Pierponts

The Utah branch of the family are the descendants of Thomas Fairclough Pierpont. He was born in Lancashire, England in 1836 and came to New York in 1851. There he married, became a Mormon, moved to Canada during the US Civil War, then moved to Salt Lake City in late 1865. I’ve documented his story here. I’ve traced his family tree back to the mid-1500s and noted that there were various spellings such as Parpoynt and Pierpoint until Thomas’ father, John Pierpont changed the family name one more time. But I have not been able to make a connection to any of the other Pierpont groups. As a relatively recently immigrant group, even with the Mormon tradition of multiple wives and large families, this is still a relatively small group.

 

Group 7 – the Canadian Pierreponts

Although the prior four groups came to what is now the United States, there is also one family branch which came to Canada. I’ve written about them before here. As noted in that blog, Samuel Whitworth Pierrepont came to western Canada (Manitoba) in 1911. He had been born in Nottinghamshire in 1887, married in 1911, came to Canada just 3 weeks later as an indentured servant to work off the cost of his passage, then sponsored his wife to come join him in 1912. While he and his ancestors were from several small towns just a few miles from Holme Pierrepont, because it was nearly 300 years from when John and Robert came to New England, it was too many years to make a definitive connection to the New England Pierponts. But it is quite likely that the two groups are connected. Only having been here for slightly more than 100 years, this group is pretty small, but one of the great-granddaughters of Samuel has joined the PFA and we have regular communication with her.

 

Group 8 – the Wolcott Pierpoints

In my hometown of Wolcott, CT, there was a Pierpoint family. Upon investigation, they were the descendants of Jesse Pierpoint who had been born in Birmingham, Warwickshire, England in 1860 and who had come to Rhode Island in 1880. This family had been in Warwickshire for over 100 years and had been in Cheshire before that. The spelling of Pierpoint in this family line appears to have been unchanged since the 1600s.

 

Other Groups

It’s been nearly 400 years since the first family members came to North America. It is pretty likely that there have been other members of the greater Pierpont/Pierpoint family who have done so just as the above groups (as an example, the Wolcott Pierpoint family would be unknown to the other groups except that they happened to be in the same town as a few members of the PFA). But finding records that can document exact family connections between these groups over such a long period of time is difficult and may even be impossible. But I have not yet found any groups/individuals where there is any indication that they are not connected. Some of the above groups have come to our attention just recently and we are happy to have additional family members.

 

Conclusion

Despite the considerable changes/variations in surname over the last 1000 years, all these Pierpont/Pierpoint/Pierrepont/de Pierrepont/etc. groups share a common heritage. I have documented all the groups that I am aware of, but there may be others. All of them are descendants of the original de Pierrepont in what is now Normandy, France. And all of them, whatever the spelling of their surname, and even if they no longer have the surname at all because of subsequent marriages and name changes, can be proud to be part of this connected family! My mother was a Pierpont, and my ancestral line includes a number of the variant spellings. But I am proud of my heritage and my connections to all my cousins, however distantly we may be connected!

If you are reading this post, what is your story? Are you a member of one of the groups listed above? Or are you a member of some other branch of the family? Share this post with other members of the greater Pierpont/Pierpoint/etc. family. And share your own connection as well. We’re all family and we all enjoy talking with other family members!

Tuesday, May 7, 2024

Lies and Marriages

Recently I watched an episode of Who Do You Think You Are? where British actress Clare Balding was exploring her heritage in America. The name of her American ancestors was Hoagland and I thought I recognized that name. As I looked at my family tree, I realized that my wife’s great-grandmother had married William Hoagland (he was her second husband). So my wife and Clare Balding are distant step-cousins. But that’s not the topic of this blog.

I had written about the complicated family tree on my wife’s father’s side where she had no less than six women who she called “grandma” when she was born. They were actually a biological grandmother, a step-grandmother, two biological great-grandmothers, and two step-great-grandmothers (see here). I wrote that blog six years ago, but as I read it again last night, I noticed a nuance I had not seen before that even further complicated that story. The below is the expanded version of just two of those women – one of my wife’s biological great-grandmothers and one of her step-great-grandmothers.

Because dates are so critical to this story, I’ve had to be more exacting than typical doing this ancestral research and not just give years of birth/marriage/death. So, let’s get into the details.

 

William and Rachel – Just a little lie?

(The marriage law in Michigan was changed just last year. Previously, girls younger than 18 could get married with the consent of one parent if they were 16-17 or at age 15 if they also had a judge’s approval. Girls under the age of 18 could also not marry a man more than 3 years older than they were. Now the age of consent has been raised to 18.)

William Duba was born in French-speaking Canada on 8 Aug 1869. His birth name was Dubeau, but it was anglicized to Duba when he immigrated to Michigan in 1878.

Rachel Swaney was born in Grand Traverse County, Michigan, on 20 Nov 1883. William and Rachel married on 30 Mar 1900. William gave his age as 30 (which was correct), but Rachel gave her age as 18 when she was actually only 16. So, not only was she too young to get married without consent, but she was marrying a man who was almost twice her age!

[Marriage of William and Rachel]

 


Just a few months later in June 1900, on the 1900 census (one of the few that asked for actual month and year of birth in addition to age), Rachel backed off a little bit in her lie and told the census taker that she had been born in Sep 1882 and that she was 17.

William and Rachel lived in Bellaire, Antrim County, MI. Over the next few years, they had three children – Gertrude Rose (born 14 Sep 1901 when Rachel was only 17), Beulah (born 20 Feb 1903 when Rachel was 19), and Allen (born 5 Jun 1905 when Rachel was 21). But the marriage was not a stable one.

 

Charles and Mary Ann – Bigger lies and deception

Charles Holly was born on 19 Feb 1879. In the 1900 census he was living with his parents in Forest Home Township, Antrim County, MI. The census records indicate that at age 21 he was married, but that his wife was not living with him. He had married in Dec 1897 to a girl his same age (18), but had left her and returned to his parents. She filed for divorce in June 1901, listing a cause of desertion, and the divorce had been finalized on 22 Oct 1901.

Mary Ann Nestell was born on 17 May 1887. This information was accurate in the 1900 census taken in early June of that year when she was living with her parents and siblings. Her mother had also indicated that Mary Ann was 13 which is consistent.

Just a year later, on 11 Nov 1901, Charles and Mary Ann married (Charles’ divorce had been finalized less than 3 weeks prior!) He gave his age as 22, which was correct, but Mary Ann inflated her age by four years and said that she was 18. Not only was she under the age of consent, but she was even younger than would have been necessary if she had consent! Imagine a 22-year-old man marrying a 14-year-old girl!

[Marriage of Charles and Mary Ann]

 


Fortunately, Charles and Mary Ann did not have any children together to complicate the situation. But the marriage was not going well, and the pattern of lies was not yet over.

 

Divorce and More Lies – Mary Ann

The years just before and after 1910 were marked with turmoil in these two families. In May 1909, Mary Ann [Nestell] Holly filed for divorce from Charles with a cause of Extreme Cruelty. However, that petition was dismissed. But Charles returned to live with his parents once again. He can be found living there in the 1910 census, once again listing himself as married, but with no wife in the home. On 18 Apr 1911 Mary Ann once again filed for divorce, this time on the basis of desertion. It was granted and finalized on 22 May 1911. Given Charles’ pattern, I have no reason to doubt the claim of desertion. (I should also note that Charles was a serial marrier, as he married and divorced at least twice more in the coming decades.)

Meanwhile, Mary Ann had moved into the home of William Duba (more on his situation below). In the 1910 census, she lists herself as age 23 (no longer lying about her age), but with a status of widowed. But this is obviously another lie as she is still legally married to Charles who is alive and living with his parents. Apparently, she does not want to be shown in the census records as married and living with a man who is not her husband? Four months after her divorce from Charles was finalized, Mary Ann married Willam on 5 Sep 1911.

Mary Ann lived a long life, not passing away until her late 90’s. But she had told so many lies about her age over the years that even in her death there was confusion. Her social security record lists her birth as 18 May 1883, but her obituary lists her birth as 17 May 1886 and her gravestone has 17 May 1887. At least her grave has the correct date on it. The obituary was obviously written by someone who did not know the family well. Besides the date of birth being off by a year, it misspells the name of her stepson as Alan instead of Allen, and lists her local step-grandchildren as Louise Gibbard (instead of Louise Pop) and William VanDeCar (instead of Charles VanDeCar).

 

Wrapping up the Loose Ends – William and Rachel

But what happened to Rachel [Swaney] Duba? William was listed as divorced in the 1910 census and he remarried in 1911. And what happened to their three children?

William and Rachel divorced some time after the birth of Allen in 1905 and before her subsequent marriage (see more below). Mary Ann’s obituary, while having many errors as noted above, says that she moved to Bellaire in 1910 – again, just shortly before the census was taken.

The older two children of William and Rachel (Gertrude and Beulah) stayed at least for a short time with William as they were still there in 1910. Some time later they moved to Detroit and lived with their aunt. Beulah passed away in Detroit in 1919 at the age of only 16. Gertrude married Archibald VanDeCar (in Detroit) in 1920 at the age of 19. Allen, the youngest child of William and Rachel cannot be found in the 1910 census. But in the 1920 census he was 14 and working at a foundry in Pontiac, MI.

Rachel married a second time to William Hoagland on 7 Apr 1909. But she eventually divorced him and married Alfred Stafford on 20 Apr 1922. She and Alfred had one son together on 16 May 1923.

 

Conclusion

Rachel does not appear to have done any lying except for when she married at age 16. But Mary Ann gave many different years for her birth over the years and also lied about her marital status on the 1910 census. At the time of her death, there were conflicting dates about how old she was.

Divorces, second, third and even fourth marriages. Just trying to keep all the individuals straight is hard enough. But when you add in the phony dates it makes for a pretty complicated story!